We recently had dinner with a male friend of ours who embraces an alternative lifestyle. He was doling out some marriage/relationship advice to us, and his vivid, eccentric way of communicating his points kept us laughing all the way home from the restaurant.
On sex and not always getting it when you want it:
“Sex is like icing on a brownie. Sometimes you get the icing, and sometimes you… just…. get a brownie”.
On having healthy boundaries:
“Just remember, you don’t have to have sex with all your friends“